If you’re worried about breaking some of the wedding cardinal rules, you’re not alone.
It comes with postage included 99 percent of the time, so there is really no excuse!"
But don’t overlook the dress code!
“Men, figure out how to tie a bowtie!”
If you read the invitation but still unsure what it means, Google it or ask a friend.
“Read the dress code simply for your own comfort,” Kritis says.
“Why wear a tux or stilettos at a semi-formal beach wedding when you don’t have to?”
It’s your chance to experience something miraculous.
And mingle, even if you’re not looking to meet anyone special.
Here’s your chance to get to know people that are really important to them."
Some experts recommend having an unplugged event, to ensure zero distractions from the ceremony taking place.
“I like a no-cell-phone ceremony, if possible,” said Freeman.
First, you don’t want to be a distraction.
You want your focus and attention to be on the ceremony.
The second reason Freeman suggests your phone should stay in your bag or pocket isn’t about noise.
“Even if you think you might’t dance, get out there and just have fun!
You’ll probably never see half of the people again anyway.”
With the ceremony out of the way, this is your opportunity to really let go and enjoy yourself.
That doesn’t happen if you’re not on the dance floor," said Freeman.
More often than not, it’s what the couple wants!
Whatever you do, don’t match the bride!
“It’s the number one rule,” said Kritis.
“It’s the bride’s day, not yours.
She spent a lot of money on that white gown, so be respectful.”
Another good rule of thumb?
“Never bethatperson to wear white!
Let the bride be the center of attention.
There’s no need to compete.”
“Don’t be a hot mess at the end of the night.
Know how to control your drinking!
She recommends to simply know your limits.
“Try your best to be aware of when enough is enough.
“Guests should appreciate the unique taste and style of the bride and groom,” Hammer continued.
It’s important to try and shift your perspective.”
Don’t put them in the position where they feel stuck.”
Kritis recommends having an after-wedding game plan if you want to spend some quality time with the couple.
“The couple spent a lot of money on a professional photographer let them do their job.
That will also allow you to enjoy yourself,” said Kritis.
The day is supposed to be about the couple, not about you."
Don’t forget the gift!
Remembering to bring a gift is crucial!
“If you don’t feel like bringing cash, their registry will steer you in the right direction.
Not showing up empty-handed is really important.”
Don’t freak out just yet.
“It’s not the end of the world,” said Kritis.
But you do have a very small window to get that gift to the couple.
