Here’s some of the biggest red flags.

Equally toxic to a relationship is choosing not to let go of grudges.

This can cause alotof resentment and anger in both parties.

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But even divorce doesn’t get you off the hook from making adjustments.

The trust is broken

It may sound cliche, but trustisfundamental to all relationships especially marriages.

If the trust is broken in a marriage, the relationship is almost always also fragmented.

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And nothing kills trust and relationships faster than when one person cheats.

That spouse has to be willing to become accountable and start telling the truth.

Without these changes, the relationship surely will not last.

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According to the expert, couples who resort to name-calling and finger-pointing are headed down a destructive path.

Not enough crying?

Nevertheless, a lack of emotion can actually be an even greater problem.

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Nevertheless, if one spouse keeps on the current course of indifference, the relationship is destined for divorce.

But what happens if the affair wasn’t just a one time thing?

What if, instead, it continues on even after the truth came out?

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According topsychotherapist Tina B. Tessina, any such involvements outside of the marriage can spell disaster.

That is, seeing if their partner will end the affair on their own.

Others may make a run at beg their spouse into ending the affair.

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But none of these are advised.

Once a cheater, always a cheater?

Some couples are able to repair their relationship afterinfidelity.

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However, that’s not set in stone.

After a while, though, some couples may realize that they don’t have much in common anymore.

On the outside, this may not seem so bad.

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After all, there’s no yelling or name-calling.

“Couples simply stop sharing their inner world with each other,” she revealed to the publication.

Regardless, Cohen said this is disastrous to a marriage.

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A lack of conversation even heated arguments obviously means there’s a huge a lack of communication.

When that happens, the relationship hits a stalemate and, if nothing changes, becomes unable to thrive.

Spouses who arenot happily married, however, tend to look back differently.

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She then gauges their reactions.

Those couples aren’t likely to go the distance.

When one spouse takes up all of the other’s time, it can breed resentment.

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Both spouses can end up getting frustrated and angry with each other.

A healthy and trusting relationship allows for togethernessandtime apart.

A balance of time is vital in order for a marriage to be successful.

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“People become resentful.

Both the psychologist and marriage therapist agree that this imbalance in power can lead to divorce.

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