Jennifer Lopez has been married four times and engaged three times.

Two of those engagements were to Ben Affleck.

She liked the attention from paparazzi, but Noa didn’t think it was conducive to an authentic relationship.

Jennifer Lopez smiling

“Stay single for a while, take 12 months off,” Noa said.

“If she meets someone new, maybe keep it private and not get married again.

“I’ve been married three times,” Lopez said.

Jennifer Lopez Ojani Noa smiling

“And once was nine months, and once was 11 months.

So I don’t really count those.”

(The 11-month marriage was her marriage to Ojani Noa.)

Lopez went on to say she and Marc Antony were married for a decade and share children.

“I was very young the first two times I tried to get married.

I would saytryto get married,” Lopez said.

She spoke about the loneliness that comes along with fame too.

“So you always want somebody with you.

“There are deeper issues,” the source said.

Per theNew York Post, the official cause for divorce was “irreconcilable differences.”