The British upper-class has long held an important place in the popular imagination.
Born into the old-school English peerage, Lady Melissa Trafelet has always enjoyed wealth and privilege.
The result is a very fascinating picture of what life in the upper echelon is truly like.
“When we first moved in, we all shared one bedroom, the four of us siblings.”
Of course, it was not for a lack of bedrooms that Trafelet bunked with her brothers and sisters.
As Alnwick Castle boasts an impressive 150 rooms, there was more than enough space for everyone.
That being said, Trafelet and her siblings found the castle intimidating when their parents first inherited it.
As time went on, the children grew more comfortable in their new home.
Eventually, the family was able to share their beloved home with the world.
That being said, she is not exactly a commoner either.
Her family can trace their ancestry back to important historical figures like King Charles II.
Interestingly, Trafelet’s titles have put her in close contact with royalty on multiple occasions.
Trafelet was once in love with William’s best buddy, Thomas van Straubenzee.
Luckily, the couple did not disappoint.
Trafelet and van Straubenzee hosted a 500-person extravaganza that began at the historic St. Michael’s parish church.
They then welcomed guests at Trafelet’s family home at Alnwick Castle, where they hosted a fireworks show.
Naturally, the bride dressed to impress.
In addition to a gorgeous necklace, the aristocrat paired her dress with a literal tiara.
for de-stress from the whole situation, Trafelet jetted off to California.
There, she checked into an exclusive health retreat and decompressed from the challenging ordeal.
“I felt like a new person when I got back,” she toldTatler.
She also signed up for a culinary class at the prestigious Leiths School of Food and Wine in London.
After a whole lot of physical wellness and delicious eats, Trafelet found herself able to cope.
To celebrate this fantastic moment of personal growth, Trafelet decided to host a fabulous birthday party.
Speaking to theDaily Mail, she revealed that the event had been hosted at Syon House in London.
The most impressive thing about the party was arguably the dessert.
While this may have been an odd choice, Trafelet was very enthusiastic about the design.
As she told the Daily Mail in the same interview, “I love sharks.
And I got to cut myself up with a sword!”
The American hedge fund tycoon, Remy Trafelet, was just her sort of man.
And, when a mutual friend introduced him to her, sparks flew.
In 2018, theNew York Postestimated Remy’s fortune at approximately $200 million.
As noted in their divorce filings, the Trafelet crew is accustomed to having a staff.
In the past, they have employed chauffeurs, private chefs, and personal trainers.
However, the couple could not choose just one place to reside.
Instead, they split their time between New York City and rural Georgia.
While in New York, Melissa and Remy live in a stunning townhouse on the prestigious Park Avenue.
Photos taken byTatlerreveal that the home boasts a large private terrace as well as a wide modern staircase.
Known as Mercer Mill Plantation, the property spans over a shocking 6,000 acres of land.
Interestingly, Mercer Mill does not just function as a home, but also a reserve for quail hunting.
As such, the Trafelets have outfitted the property with horse stables and kennels for their hunting hounds.
She particularly enjoyed the classic combination of hunting and shooting.
As an adult, Trafelet has continued this old-timey aristocratic tradition.
In fact, she invites people over so frequently that these outings are an integral part of her lifestyle.
Chatting withAtlanta Magazine, Trafelet shared, “It’s rare that we don’t have guests.
It’s lovely out just chatting on horseback.”
The aristocrat loves showing visitors a good time and is sure to balance outdoor activities with indoor comforts.
Since then, her dream seems to be on the path to coming true.
As of the publication of this article, Melissa and Remy Trafelet have welcomed four children.
Their oldest daughter, Bluebell Trafelet, was born in 2020 just months after their wedding.
The couple welcomed twin sons, Alfred and Percy Trafelet, three years later.
And, in 2025, Ivy Trafelet joined the couple’s ever-growing brood.
And, Lady Melissa Trafelet has not been afraid to start a new lifestyle brand of her own.
Launched in 2017, the brand is all about being your best self in the great outdoors.
Then the idea [for Mistamina] just came to me."
Far from being your typical model, Trafelet does not exactly dream of walking for Louis Vuitton or Chanel.
As a horseman, chef, model, and businessperson, Trafelet has always propelled herself forward.
