The following article includes references to child sexual abuse.
It wasn’t her falling out with the seven other wives on the show.
It wasn’t the sex scandal of which she had to deny being a part of.

But that was only the beginning for the eight wives that graced our screens.
According to Whitney, however, people can cease their questions.
“Oh my gosh, that my husband is gay!”

she said, playfully adding, “Do I need to put out a sex tape or something?
Like, trust me, we’re good.
Everything’s fine.”
She also attributed her husband’s frequent hair changes as the rumor’s catalyst.
But Whitney insists that his hair didn’t change all that often.
No matter the truth of Conner’s sexuality, Whitney’s audience wants her to divorce him for cheating.
At one point, she did consider separation a possibility.
But she says it was her therapist who opened her eyes to her freedom of choice.
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